Do I Need a Boyfriend?

Need ko ba? Hmmm... Siguro. I think the greater need I have is to be attended to, adored, wanted, needed by someone whom I am drawn to and brings out a similar response of caring from me. Yung natural yung reciprocation. Kung boyfriend ang makakapagbigay nun, why not?

I guess before we assume that BF nga ang kailangan natin, we should analyze first kung ano talaga NEED natin. And then we look around and see kung saan pwede matugunan yung needs na yun. Let's not be too quick and obsessed with finding and eventually making ONE man fit to meet all those needs. That can be a trap and leave us frustrated.

What TYPE of boyfriend/relationship do I think am I longing for? I want someone who enriches my mind with endless conversations about life in its many facets and forms. Sa smart guy talaga ako lubog na lubog kadalasan. Of course anjan yung iba pang points of attraction like itsura, character, career, emotional well-being. Kaya lang, if a guy engages my mind, kuha na nya ang buong attention ko. Kasi alam kong mas magtatagal ito compared to guys na ang take-off point eh physical attraction at pa-tweetums lang at hindi kaya i-follow through ng talino.

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